I worked hard all year and didn’t get promoted. What’s my next move?
If you worked hard all year and didn’t get promoted, don’t immediately assume you need to work harder or leave. First, understand why you were passed over. The blocker might be your performance, but it could also be visibility, sponsorship, unclear expectations, budget or simply that there isn’t a role available. Once you know what’s actually standing between you and the next level, you can decide whether to fix it or find your next opportunity elsewhere.
Depending on when your company does its annual performance reviews, you may have recently found out how you fared.
Are you getting promoted? Did you get a “that’s nice, dear” pat on the back? Or did you get some feedback and you’re left scratching your head about how you’re actually supposed to change it?
Or perhaps the wheels are in motion for your end-of-year review, in which case now is the time to put your best foot forward.
Why didn’t I get promoted even though I performed well?
At a lot of companies, sadly, the performance review process is still highly subjective. I don't think it should be.
Too often it can be some combination of likeability, which loosely translates to agreeableness and adhering to social norms, and the quality of your work. Do you deliver on time? Is your work high quality? Does it create value for the business?
Getting people offside is also one of the fastest ways to see your rating drop, and I’ve seen neurodivergent thinkers in particular get unfairly penalised by these subjective measures.
But sometimes it’s much simpler than that.
Someone at the top of the chain, often two layers above your manager, simply hasn’t had enough visibility of your work. And when it comes to approving the pay bump or promotion, particularly if the company isn’t performing as well as they’d like, they’re less likely to be generous.
It’s likely to feel subjective because, often, it is.
What should I do after being passed over for a promotion?
So, what do you do?
Like most questions, the answer is nuanced and depends on where your head is currently at.
I know a lot of people are unhappy in their current roles right now, but the job market is tough for people in tech. Redundancies have shaken the confidence of the survivors, and the people left behind often have much bigger remits. SaaS companies in particular are seeing pressure on renewals.
So before you rage quit, figure out where the blocker actually is.
Ask your manager what you need to do to get promoted
If your manager is genuinely on your side and wants to see you succeed, sit down with them and formulate a plan for what it would take to get promoted in the next performance review cycle, assuming a position is available.
And get specific.
What do they need to see from you? What outcomes do you need to deliver? Who needs to see them? What would demonstrate that you’re already operating at the next level?
I've seen scenarios where there's a mismatch between what your manager thinks you need to demonstrate, what their manager expects, and what the founder ultimately wants to see.
Your manager needs to set you up for success, and that means getting alignment on what “the next level” actually looks like and putting you onto initiatives that give you the opportunity to demonstrate it.
At the very least, having this conversation signals that you’re serious about your career with the company.
You don’t need to say, “If I don’t get promoted next time, I’m leaving.”
They know.
If someone wants a promotion or pay rise, performs strongly, does everything that’s been asked of them and still doesn’t get it in the next cycle, they’re going to become a flight risk. Strategies for retaining great performers are always discussed. That’s often when you see some sort of bump, whether that’s equity, a pay rise, promotion, training or something else.
Then, when you’re confident you have your manager’s endorsement, execute the plan.
Document your achievements and make your manager’s job easy
And make your manager's job easy.
Collect your wins throughout the year and give them something they can actually use when they're advocating for you. Keep it quantifiable, concise and, where possible, back it up with qualitative evidence.
For example:
“We decreased the time it takes sellers to list products by 30% when we released Feature X, which in turn had the following impact on the business. And here's what the customer said.”
That's much more useful than “I successfully delivered Feature X” (which usually lands you in the “that's nice, dear” pat on the back category).
Remember, when your manager goes into that performance discussion, they're making a case for you. Give them the evidence they need to make a really good one.
Make your work visible without taking all the credit
Then be visible.
Share your team's wins at town halls, in sprint reviews, on Slack kudos, wherever it makes sense in your organisation. Be sure to give credit where credit is due, without being so humble that your contributions are misattributed. In technology, our work is team based and when the team wins, everyone tends to win.
People are busy, and while it’s easy to think hard work speaks for itself, it’s only one part of the equation.
Your work can’t actually speak.
If you keep your head down all year doing brilliant work, you can’t assume the people sitting in a room deciding who gets promoted know about it.
Find a sponsor who will advocate for your promotion
And get yourself a sponsor.
You need the executive who leads your organisation to see the value you bring. It helps if an executive in an adjacent team sees it too.
This is a fine line. You don't want to be seen as going over your manager's head, so manage it with care.
Because when it’s a bunch of senior people sitting around a performance matrix, ranking performance and deciding who gets promoted, having more than one person on your side helps tremendously.
That’s the difference between visibility and sponsorship.
Visibility means people know what you’ve done.
Sponsorship means someone with influence is willing to advocate for you when you’re not in the room.
So don’t just manage up. Think sideways too.
Build relationships with leaders in adjacent teams. Solve problems that matter to them. Make their teams more successful. Give them a reason to know your name and the value you bring.
And be good to the people around you. People who only manage up get their teammates offside, who then complain to their manager, who then complain to your manager, who then complains to their manager, and it becomes a thing.
What should I do if my performance feedback is vague?
But what happens if the feedback you received has left you scratching your head?
Maybe you’ve been told you need to “be more strategic”, “improve your stakeholder management” or develop more “executive presence”.
Okay.
How?
You will need specific examples from your manager to help with coaching, whether that coaching comes from your manager or an external coach.
Because “be more strategic” isn’t a development plan.
You need to understand what someone observed, what they wanted to see instead, and what you can actually do differently next time.
If your manager simply isn't as open to coaching you as you'd like, or doesn't have the time, then get yourself an external coach.
Remember, coaching doesn't have to be all hard skills, like roadmaps and discovery. Often I see people struggle with challenging relationships or team dynamics.
Consider a coach who understands your role
Find out what training budget you have available and get yourself a coach.
Look for someone who deeply understands what it’s like to perform your role and can help you unpack the feedback objectively, work out what it actually means and turn it into behaviours you can practise.
If you work in product management, get someone who has done your job. If you work in marketing, same thing. They're more likely to be able to offer targeted strategies, rather than just ask questions and hope you figure it out for your context.
The other benefit is that they’re often well connected in your industry, and they may think of you when having coffee with a connection who needs someone with your exact skillset.
How do I know when it’s time to leave after missing a promotion?
And then there’s one final question. Can this organisation realistically give you what you want?
You can have your manager’s endorsement. You can increase your visibility. You can build sponsorship. You can action the feedback. You can do everything right.
And there still might not be a role available.
There might not be budget.
The company might not be growing.
Or you might discover that the people making the decisions simply don’t see your future there the same way you do.
This, while it's difficult to hear, is useful information too. It means you need to create your own opportunities outside your company to help you achieve what you want to achieve.
Because at that point, you get to decide whether you want to invest another performance cycle trying to change their mind, or whether it’s time to take everything you’ve learned and find somewhere else that sees the value you bring.
Missing a promotion doesn’t mean the year was wasted.
And there is a silver lining.
You’ve spent the past year deliberately working on the thing that was holding you back. You’ve built evidence of your impact. You’ve learned how to make that impact visible. You’ve built stronger relationships across the organisation.
None of that development disappears if you leave.
Plus that wins deck makes it a lot easier to update your resume.
Whether your next promotion comes from your current company or the next one, you’re walking into that next conversation much better equipped than you were a year ago.
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If you’re working towards a promotion, trying to make sense of difficult feedback, navigating challenging stakeholders or simply wondering what’s holding you back, this is exactly the kind of thing I work through with product people in coaching.
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